Happy New Year!
In November 07 I realized something quite startling... I had never gone a year without seriously dating someone. Someone has been in and out of my life constantly. I've had what I like to call "Periods of Singleness": A month here, three months there, five weeks here and there... But I've never spent a full year in Singleville. Nor have I had more than a one year committed relationship. I'm ready to learn a lot about me and work on my goals for 08... So now on January 1, 2008... I've decided to try it out... And I've elected myself the Mayor of Singleville...
No dating (online or in person)
No late night phone calls
No sex
Nada... for 366 days (if you didn't know, this is a leap year)....
I'm sure there are questions (and they are probably the same ones I've asked myself):
What if someone nice approaches you and catches your eye?
Well hopefully he'll be around and we'll be friends.... because in 09... I'll be available (god willing). If he can't wait, cool. I wish him well. Joy has much to do.
What happens if you don't make it?
Then life happens. Such is life, isn't it.... Don't worry, you'll be the second to know if I don't make it.
So right now you have no dating prospects?
UHHHHH.... No. And I hope that if anything I'll be making friends in this process because I really do believe that guys and girls can truly be friends without all of the fluff....
So I'm a little crazy, but wish me luck. This journey through Singleville is gonna be rough but fruitful... I plan to post every single day for 366 days just about my mood and my observations. You might read some poetry, some angst, some jubilation, and every other emotion under the sun so brace yourself.... and join me on this journey.... Happy New Year!!
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